Adulting adjusting

Younger, I could not wait to get older, you know become an adult. Yeeeah am an adult now and it's just quite not what I expected...

As a kid everything was soo simple being yourself, making friends, breaking friendships, talking to strangers, not giving two shits about literally anything, not understanding the concept of stress or anxiety. And funny enough, back then I thought things were hard. I could not wait to become an adult and finally become free to do whatever I want.

I thought being an adult symbolised fulfilling your dreams, choosing your path as an individual, being the master of your destiny and all that crap lol. Little did I know that at the time, I was indeed truly free. 

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